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Healing Retreat for Bereaved Families of Ethiopian Origin
Beit Yehuda Guesthouse, Jerusalem, August 13-14, 2012

 

 

 

The families, including 59 parents, children and grandparents, all endured terrible loss recently and received practical aid and comfort from SELAH at the time of their personal tragedy. Many had lost a child; others endured family violence ending in the death of parents. All remain immersed in grief. This retreat, centered around special sites in Jerusalem, including the Kotel, with age-appropriate activities for 34 children, brought the families out of their homes, gathering them together, to receive some comfort knowing they are not alone.

 

 

The touring introduced the people to places some had never seen, but had long dreamed of. It also introduced them to each other. By the second day, they were able to join an intensive session with Amharic-speaking facilitators, and connect in profound peer support and strengthening. The intensity was relieved by time for relaxation and rest, traditional Ethiopian music/movement workshops and shared family meals and activities.

 

 

Sibling-Headed Orphaned Ethiopian Families Healing Retreat
Jerusalem, July 31-August 1, 2012

 

 

 

As part of SELAH’s summer programs for the special populations in its care, SELAH held a healing retreat for sibling-headed families of Ethiopian origin, with separate tracks for the older caregiving brothers and sisters and the orphaned younger siblings they are raising on their own. The retreat took in the Jerusalem area, with close to 50 brothers and sisters participating in rich, meaningful programs tailored for their age groups.


Most of the families have been in SELAH's care for years; Amharic-speaking caregivers have accompanied them through hardship and crisis, and the adjustment to the new family configuration and changing roles. This retreat included a 20-year-old girl raising her siblings after losing their mother only this year, as well as several older siblings who have struggled for a long time to establish family stability. The newer participants were thus able to see that, with all the pain, the orphaned families have survived, and coped in spite of the difficulties.

In a peer support session led by psychologist Ethiopia Lacha and social worker Mamuye Zere (right), older sibling shared how their families were faring, including the many problems and challenges. With all the difficulty, however, many reported that the children are doing well in school, and some have the feeling that they have finally been able to pursue their own dreams while still holding the family together. Four older siblings in the group were married this past year, with three new babies brought into the world. The sibling caregivers are belatedly pursuing their own studies, and their lives, somehow managing, against all odds, to balance their tremendous responsibilities.

 

 


The retreat included a tour of special sites in Jerusalem, the city dreamed of and longed for while the families were still in Ethiopia. The older siblings viewed the panorama of the city from the "Tayellet," before their next stop, the Western Wall and the tunnels. Each left a note between the Wall's ancient stones. They visited the Machane Yehuda market, and the children rode on the Time Elevator and explored the Biblical Zoo. The retreat included plenty of time for recreation and swimming at the guesthouse on the outskirts of Jerusalem, where they stayed overnight. The evening highlight for the families was a performance and movement workshop in traditional Ethiopian music and dance, for all the age groups.

 

 

Healing Retreat for Grandparents Raising Their Orphaned Grandchildren
Kfar Ha'Maccabia, April 20-21, 2012

 

 

A week after Passover, 2012, SELAH gathered 46 grandparents and the 39 orphaned grandchildren they are raising for a weekend retreat, especially designed as a strengthening break from difficult daily routine, with three tracks of activities. It also provided an opportunity to join together with others who deal with similar hardships and situations, and to share experiences in a supportive environment. Most of the grandparents in this retreat join in SELAH support sessions held during the year, in the center of the country, as well as the North. The connections formed in the support groups and the retreat continue, and the many grandparents stay in contact through the year, which helps to relieve the loneliness and isolation they often feel, as they face bereavement, advancing age, and the tremendous responsibility of raising the children.

 

The first day started at Park Ha'Yarkon in Tel Aviv, where, after a light snack, the children visited the Tzapari bird reserve, and the teens enjoyed a bike ride through the park. The grandparents were taken on a guided sailing tour on the Yarkon and then rode on motorized trolleys through the park. 

 

Back at Kfar Ha’Maccabia, the participants gathered for a ‘Welcoming the Sabbath,’ with a short talk about the weekly Torah portion, and a Sabbath evening meal. The evening program incorporated a musical journey around the world with a multi-talented accordionist and a prominent singer of international Yiddish music for the grandparents, and supervised games and activities for the younger participants. 

 

The second day, the teens and children were taken on age-appropriate excursions: the children went to the “Apollonia” National Park, with a guided tour that highlighted the fascinating story of the fortress and the unique nature surrounding it; the teenagers hiked along the “Sharon Coast” National Park, including the the kurkar ridges, which overlook the narrow and magnificent coast. In the afternoon, the youth participated in a support group tailored to the special problems they face after the loss of their parents, and the adjustment to having their grandparents in a parental role. These are issues no one but their peers can understand, they claim, and the support group gave voice to their deep conflicts and emotional needs. The grandparents were divided into three support groups led by Russian-speaking SELAH professionals, where they were able to share their experiences, hardships and moments of hope and happiness. 

One of SELAH’s professional teams: clockwise from left,
Ella Stolper, social worker; Faina Zeitlin, social worker; Dr. Dina Chanoch, psychiatrist;
Dr. Pinchas Chanoch, physician; Alex Altshuler, social worker.

 

Healing Retreat for Bereaved Families
Blue Bay Hotel, Netanya, March 16-17, 2012

 

 

In mid-March of 2012, SELAH organized an overnight retreat for bereaved families in Netanya. The retreat included a variety of recreational activities for adults, youth and children and special support sessions. Immigrants of both Russian and Ethiopian origin joined, including the bereaved parents, wives, children and other family members of security servicemen who perished in the Carmel Forest fire of December 2010 while on a rescue mission.


The weather was stormy and threatening, but many of the outdoor activities planned were carried out. During the course of the retreat, the adults visited the Utopia Orchid Park in Bahan, with thousands of orchids and wild plants from all over the world. The youth and children ventured off to the sea-turtle park at the Alexander river, with its vast range of sea-birds and sea-turtles. After the first day’s excursions, the families returned to the hotel, where they rested and then participated in a welcoming of the Sabbath and Sabbath meal. In the evening the youth and children were engaged in personalized activities with SELAH’s youth guides, while the adults enjoyed a lively performance of an exceptional pair of violinists.


The second day began with a bracing walk near the sea cliffs, with a dazzling view of the Mediterranean Sea and a knee-high dip in the ocean. After lunch, while the youth and children continued the activities and games with the counselors, the adults joined for the special peer support groups which are the heart of the retreat. Taking into account the special needs of the families bereaved in the Carmel Forest Fire, separate workshops were tailored for widows and widowers, and for bereaved parents, facilitated by SELAH's trained professionals. SELAH continues to bring the families together, as they struggle to carry on and raise their children, including the babies born just months after their fathers were killed.

 

 

Healing Retreat for Sibling-Headed Families of Ethiopian Origin
Nes Ammim, August 14-15, 2011

 

 


On August 14-15, we gathered some 50 young people of Ethiopian origin in which orphaned children are being raised by their older siblings. Held at the Nes Ammim guest house in the North, the retreat was an opportunity for the older siblings to share their experiences and challenges, while being strengthened by each other and by SELAH facilitators, and for the younger orphans to have a good time and put aside their hardships.

 

The retreat included multi-track activities for the children and their sibling-caregivers, combining touring and recreation, which included: a visit to the Navy campaign base in Haifa, a visit to Acco and its fascinating historical sites, pool time at the guest house in Nes Ammim, and a night hike at Rosh Hanikra.

 

Alongside the uniquely tailored activities, the second day included an intensive peer support workshop, facilitated by SELAH professionals, for the older brothers and sisters raising the orphaned youngsters. In the group meetings, the older siblings shared their stories, their pain, and their dreams, learned coping mechanisms, and explored ways in which it was possible to pursue their own personal goals, even while raising the children.

 

The peer support groups are at the heart of SELAH retreats, with strong relationships forming between the people participating that carry on throughout the year.

 

 

Healing Retreat for Bereaved Families
Kibbutz Amiad Guest House, August 11-13, 2011

 

 

Bereaved immigrant families from all over Israel gathered in mid-August for SELAH’s 3-day healing retreat, between Lake Tiberias and the Golan in the north of Israel. The participants were families originally from the Former Soviet Union as well as from Ethiopia, who had lost their loved ones to fire, terror, war, plane crashes, accidents, illness, and family violence.

 

Two young women whose husbands had been killed in the Carmel Fire of December 2010, and who gave birth just a few months later, were joined by a mother who lost her son in the fire, and the mother, widow, children, and brother of an Ethiopian security service cadet who also lost his life in this tragedy. These families, recently bereaved, were joined by those who endured loss years ago and are still connected to SELAH: a mother who lost her only son in a terror attack in 1996, the daughter of a woman killed in the Siberian Air crash of 2001, the widow of a terror victim from 2002, who has also become an active SELAH volunteer.

 


The retreat was designed to bring all the families together to share their experiences, their pain, and to find comfort and support in new relationships, all in a beautiful setting that they toured, hiked through, and relaxed in. While some activities were for the whole family, others were on separate age-appropriate tracks. SELAH trauma professional facilitators led peer support groups for the adults while the children swam and played and engaged in creative activities with trained youth guides. Knowing their children and grandchildren were in safe hands and enjoying a mini summer camp experience, they were freed to enjoy the surroundings, and to feel they were truly “b’yachad,” together with others who understood their pain, and could perhaps help to ease it.

 

 

 

Ten Years Later: Daytrip for Bereaved Dolphinarium Families
Mateh Yehuda Region of Central Israel June 24, 2011

 

 


On June 24, after the official ceremonies marking ten years since the Dolphinarium terror attack, which brutally targeted immigrant teenagers, family members once again gathered, at their own request, for a day of strengthening and support with the SELAH volunteers and professional staff who have accompanied them from the beginning and stayed connected to this day. In addition to touring and gathering together for a meal, participants shared some of the dilemmas, challenges and hopes they experience in a peer support workshop facilitated by a Russian-speaking social worker and a psychiatrist. In this setting, they could raise issues that can only be discussed and understood by people who have shared a similar loss. For all the pain, many have been able to move forward in their lives. "I remember my son every day," said one mother, "but I also remember that I want to live!"

 

 

Tevatherapy: Training Seminars for SELAH Volunteers
Alonim Forest, April 1, 2011; Nachsholim Beach, May 17, 2011

 

 

Tevatherapy is an innovative approach to group-work, drawing on healing and regenerating properties found in nature, and combining metaphors from nature with expressive art and group sharing and support. In the spring of 2011, we organized a pair of intensive training sessions, facilitated by Simona Chanoch, who developed the program for volunteers and other caregivers, to familiarize them with the program, with the goal of tailoring it to meet the special needs and ages of participants in SELAH’s longer-care programs for special populations. The sessions, for some 15 volunteers, took place in the Alonim forest near Bethlehem in the Galilee, and by the Mediterranean sea at Nachsholim. The volunteers experienced the program through movement, artwork, writing, verbal sharing of thoughts, all of which were connected to the natural surroundings. Taking objects from nature, both forest and sea, to express emotions, they also joined in meditative walking and observing nature and used these elements for reflection and renewal. Speaking of the “simple” creations fashioned from the items they found and chose in nature, the participants spoke of childhood, belonging, aliya, the search for self, family, home, control, and more. The discussions, held within safe, non-threatening, and beautiful settings, were emotional and moving.

 

Seminar and Workshop for SELAH Volunteers
Jordan Valley -- December 24-25, 2010

 

 


SELAH volunteers from all over Israel gathered for two days of emergency training and enrichment in the Jordan Valley, based at the Nahara Guest House of Kibbutz Ashdot Yaakov, on December 24-25, 2010. The group reflected the great range of SELAH caregivers who reach out to immigrants in times of acute crisis, with compassion and practical aid. They included veteran immigrants and native Israelis, Russian-, Amharic-, and Farsi-speakers, doctors, psychologists, social workers, university students – and a strong representation of immigrant trauma survivors helped in the past by SELAH who are now "giving back," with their time, their concern, and their deep understanding of the needs of the bereaved and crisis-stricken.

 

At the heart of the seminar were the lectures, workshops and training sessions conducted by SELAH staff and guest speakers, including clinical psychologist Eleanor Pardess, and expert on Ethiopian issues Micha Feldmann. They covered in depth such topics as preparedness for emergency situations, growth after crisis, and the special needs of the Ethiopian immigrant community. Short films poignantly told the stories of some of the immigrants now receiving SELAH care in the face of trauma.

 

The retreat also offered guided tours and hikes in the Jordan Valley, the heart of early Israeli settlement and agriculture with its magnificent views of both nature and Israel's beginning years. The evening program brought the volunteers together for an improvisational session led by director Itzik Hadar.

 

Throughout the year, throughout the country, SELAH volunteers work alone or in small teams. For these two days, they joined their peers, shared challenges, problems, and even laughter, and saw the larger picture of SELAH, in which they play such an essential role.

 

 

Healing Retreat for Bereaved Ethiopian Families
Kibbutz Ashdot Yaakov December 7-8, 2010

 

 

During the Chanukah 2010 vacation, SELAH gathered together 68 bereaved Ethiopian parents and children from all over Israel, for a two-day therapeutic healing retreat, in the area of Kibbutz Degania, which was Israel's first kibbutz.

 

SELAH had been there to support the families when they were hit with life-shattering tragedy, giving immediate emergency aid and support. Now, SELAH offered them the chance to be strengthened and supported by each other. The first day of the healing retreat consisted of recreational and cultural activities in beautiful historical settings. On the second day SELAH conducted our unique workshops for coping with bereavement. Conducted by an Amharic-speaking social worker and community worker, the workshops gave the adults a compassionate forum in which to share their life stories…. 

 

-- A 74-year-old woman who recently lost her husband, having lost her two children two years earlier, within a month of each other. 

 

-- A father of four whose wife and son were killed in a fire that broke out in their home.

 

-- Parents whose daughter was murdered by her husband and who are now raising her son, age 3, along with their own four children. 

 

-- A long-time widower whose only son, 15, whom he had been raising alone since the age of 2, fell from a roof while at school, after possibly having been pushed.

 

For some, it was the first time they had been able to speak to others about their tragedy.

 

The unique program, taking place in the heart of the State of Israel’s early history, but tailored to the needs and culture of immigrants of Ethiopian origin, ended with the candle-lighting of the last night of Chanukah, signifying the sharing of warmth and light – and hope for the future, even in the face of terrible loss.

Healing Retreat for Bereaved Families from the Former Soviet Union
Kfar Maccabia, November 26-27, 2010

 

 

 


In late November 2010, 63 bereaved immigrants from the Former Soviet Union, now living throughout Israel, joined SELAH social workers, caregivers and youth guides for an overnight healing retreat and peer support group.

 

The first day of the retreat was spent in separate age appropriate activities which included hiking, history and stories in the Bet Shemesh area and the Judean Hills. That evening, Shabbat candles were lit, followed by Kabbalat Shabbat, Kiddush, and a festive family dinner. The adults were then treated to a moving performance by Russian actress/singer Natasha Manor, whose heart-rending songs and readings evoked images, memories and emotions from their native country.

 

The next day, the children went to the renowned Ramat Gan Safari, as their parents joined intensive SELAH healing workshops facilitated by Russian-speaking social workers, psychiatrists, and caregivers, with a separate group for bereaved parents, and another for widows, widowers and siblings. Many of the immigrants were participating in such a group for the first time. Alone and isolated, they were supported and strengthened by others. Using unique, specially developed and culturally sensitive techniques for safely expressing deep and harsh emotions, facilitators encouraged sharing, interaction, connection, comfort, and hope.

 

 

 

Healing Retreat for Grandparents Raising Orphaned Grandchildren
Kibbutz Ginnosar, August 10-11, 2010

 

 

 


Held toward the end of the 2010 summer vacation, this retreat gave immigrant grandparents raising their orphaned grandchildren a much-needed chance to take a break from their daily lives, to be together, sharing experiences, challenges and coping strategies.

 

All the families are shadowed by tragedy and traumatic loss, with parents surviving their children. Grief-stricken, the elderly grandparents still have to go on, for the sake of the orphaned grandchildren now in their care. During the year, many of the participants attend regular peer support meetings run by SELAH’s Russian-speaking professionals. Here at the retreat, they once again participated in an intensive support group where they spoke of their fears, their love – and hopes -- for the children, the problems of protecting and still letting go, and many of the dilemmas for which there are no easy solutions.

 

For the children, it was a holiday. Having lost their parents, and being raised by elderly grandparents, they, too, had much in common with each other and bonded in organized group activities, hikes and recreation. Said one child who recently lost his mother: “In school, I’m the only one without a mother and father. I thought there was nobody else like me.” At the SELAH retreat, his first, he realized he was not alone.

 

For the grandparents, knowing the children were in good hands, with experienced guides, they allowed themselves to relax, enjoy, and to be supported and strengthened. After a full day of touring in the beautiful area of the Sea of Galilee, with separate age-appropriate activities for the children, the families reunited for an evening sail on Lake Kinneret [Hebrew name for Sea of Galilee]. The gentle breezes, the quiet lapping of the water, the tired children in their arms, this was a rare moment of peace and pleasure in their challenging and difficult lives.

 

The retreat ended with one question on many of the grandparents’ lips: When can we meet like this again?


 

 

Seminar and Healing Retreat for Siblings Raising Orphaned Siblings

 

Sponsored by Pfizer Pharmaceuticals


Kibbutz Nachshonim, May 20-21, 2010


On May 20-21, 2010, SELAH organized a healing retreat for Ethiopian families where the older brothers and sisters are raising their orphaned younger siblings. The program, including an overnight stay at Kibbutz Nachshonim, was filled with age-appropriate activities and opportunities to come together as a whole group. It combined recreation, a taste of history, along with peer support, community involvement, healing and strengthening.


For the participating families, it is critical to receive caring support and to enjoy some time out, where they are relieved, even if only for few days, of some of their responsibilities. Two workshops took place for the siblings who head the families. Led by a social worker and a psychologist who speak their native Amharic and in the presence of their peers, they were able to safely share their challenges and difficulties. With this peer support and professional counseling, the terrible isolation could be eased, and some sweetness added to their lives.


On the first day of the retreat, accompanied by trained youth guides and counselors, participants toured the Burma Road, Ha’Masrek Nature Reserve, and the ancient Herodian Antipatris fortress. That evening, SELAH volunteer Major Shlomi Bicha, a hero in the Second Lebanon War, spoke to the group about his experience growing up in Israel without his parents and becoming an officer in the Israeli army. He inspired the children with his personal story.

The second day – yom kef –included swimming, games and rides in the Nachshonim Park, along with a chance to meet and interact with the families of the employees of Pfizer Pharmaceuticals, the seminar's sponsor.

 

 

 

Address by Ofra Feinmesser

Pfizer

 

Country Manager, Pfizer Pharmaceuticals Israel

Pfizer

 

 

Pfizer joined SELAH and its director Ruth Bar-On about three years ago. We were happy to discover an organization which is an amazing family and to be part of it. Pfizer is a pharmaceutical company and enjoys being part of the community and contributing, by doing, towards a better community.
SELAH enables us to connect and fulfill this vision, and to take an active role in the doing of good works and giving mutual help to one another. Whoever can help, or reach out to another, during a period of crisis, has this excellent opportunity to fulfill the act of giving.
Joint activity, which is a positive and good experience, with children from the SELAH family is a way for us to express our involvement in community life. The joy and fulfillment are enormous, and we are proud to partner with SELAH in its worthwhile activities.

 

 

 

Shlomi Bicha                 Mintamer
Left: Shlomi Bicha (right), SELAH volunteer, with Michael from Ofakim, who was raised by his older sibling after losing their parents.

Right: Mintamer (right) and Fetelwork, each of whom is raising her younger siblings after losing their parents.

 

 

Zohar                  Limor Regav 

 

Left: Zohar, SELAH counselor (right), with Melessa at Park Nachshonim.

Right: Limor Regev, who heads the SELAH retreat program (right), with Bat-El.

 

 

Orphand children
Orphaned children being raised by older siblings, at the SELAH seminar, Kibbutz Nachshonim

 

 

 

 

 

Grandparents and the Orphaned Grandchildren They are Raising
Daytrip to Old Gesher -- March 22, 2010


On Monday, March 22, 2010, SELAH brought together some 70 immigrant grandparents and their orphaned grandchildren for a day of travel, fun – and support. The trip was planned for the beginning of the long Passover school break, as holidays are very often a sensitive period for the bereaved. Throughout the year SELAH runs support groups in the north and Tel Aviv area for the grandparents faced with the daunting task of child-rearing. On this day, both groups merged, bringing along their grandchildren and some new families as well. New supportive friendships formed; old connections were strengthened.


The day's activities centered around Old Gesher in the Jordan Valley, a restored site that tells the story of the establishment of Jewish settlement in this area since the early 1900s, leading up to the War of Independence, when it came under attack. For the new immigrant grandparents, and the children as well, it was a rare, firsthand glimpse into Israel's early challenges and hardships. Guided tours, and a sound and light show in Russian, brought history alive. With jeep trips and hiking for the teens; a visit to a goat farm for the children (including the chance to prepare their own cheeses), an art workshop with objects from surrounding nature for the grandparents, topped off by a shared, bountiful meal "al ha'esh," [barbeque], the day was rich with sights, tastes, and hands-on experience. Fifteen SELAH trauma professionals, youth guides and volunteers, backed up by security and first aid teams, ensured the care and support of this vulnerable group, out for a day of adventure and connection.

 

Klara Burlakov with her great - granddaughter                              Alexander Juk with his grandson

Klara Burlakov with her great - granddaughter                                                 Alexander Juk with his grandson

 

Gransparents raising their grandchildren      Masha

Grandparents raising grandchildren preparing food                     13 year old Masha with SELAH counselors

 

Grandparents

 

 

 

Chanukah Support trip for Siblings Raising Siblings: December 13, 2009


On the second day of Chanukah 2009, SELAH brought together orphaned Ethiopian children and the older siblings raising them for a multi-track outing of guided traveling, support, and celebration. Some 40 people joined the activities, which took the children, accompanied by youth guides, to the Ramat Gan Safari park and the Neot Kedumim biblical preserve, while the older sibling caregivers toured Tel Aviv’s historic Neve Tzedek neighborhood. The young adult caregivers then took part in an intensive peer support session, facilitated by an Amharic-speaking social worker and psychologist. All burdened with enormous responsibility at a young age, here they aired their doubts and difficulties, drawing on each other and the professional counselors for help finding coping tools. The group facilitators, in addition to touching on each sibling/caregiver’s situation and problems, also helped to determine which of them might need further, more personalized help.


Each family came with their pain, as well as their struggle to build a new life. Among them: Aliza A., 23, and her two younger sisters, ages 8 and 12, whose mother and father died in 2007 and 2009 respectively. Aliza is studying science in a university preparatory program and hopes to become a chemist. Germau, 18, came with his four younger orphaned siblings, ranging in age from 8 to 14. Their mother was brutally murdered in her ninth month of pregnancy. The children all live in the home of a married older sister, who has children of her own to care for.


The Chanukah trip culminated in a Chanukah party at the Maccabim home of Micha Feldmann, director of SELAH’s Ethiopian Program, where they were joined by the chief rabbi of nearby Modi'in, Rabbi David Lau, who blessed all the children. On this second night of the holiday, in the place where the festival of Chanukah originated, each family was given their own chanukiya, and in the room filled with the light of many candles, they ended their day in song together.

 

 

Rabbi David Lau and

 

Rabbi David Lau and from the right: Yasmine,
Esther, Aliza and Hadas
.

In the foreground from the left  Lemlem, Zenash,  and Mintemer 

 

Danny Nattler with Mantagbosh   The Muluye Family

Left picture: Danny Nattler with Mantagbosh                
Right picture: The Muluye Family from left to right: Mintemer, Adam, Zenash, Havtom and Avi-el

 

Micha Feldman with Esther and Hadas     Sanayit Tadesse     Merav Zohari huggin

Micha Feldman with Esther and Hadas             Sanayit Tadesse                              Merav Zohari hugging Sanayit and Melesse

 

 

SELAH Healing Retreat for Bereaved Families from the Former Soviet Union
Kibbutz Nachsholim, June 26-27, 2009


Twenty-five immigrant families (62 people) joined SELAH's June 2009 healing retreat for the bereaved, mourning loved ones lost in rocket attacks, war, accidents, drowning, sudden medical emergencies and violence.


Each family had received critical emotional and practical support at the time of their tragedy. At the retreat, they joined peer support groups (one for bereaved parents, the other for widows and widowers) led by trauma professionals, designed to strengthen the bereaved through expressing and sharing pain and together developing tools for coping with loss.


While the children participated in separate activities led by experienced youth guides, the adults toured nearby Caesaria and the Tel Dor antiquities, enjoyed an evening song performance in Russian, and also had the chance to swim and relax with healing treatments of their choice. For many, it was the first time they had traveled in Israel outside their home town.

 

Limor and Frima Dr. Pinchas Chanoch with Victoria, K., and daughter Nicole

Left: Limor (r), SELAH's retreat coordinator, on hike with Frima S., whose son Alex was killed in battle during the second Lebanon War.

Right: Pinchas Chanoch (r), SELAH volunteer, with Victoria, K., and daughter Nicole. Victoria's husband died suddenly of a heart attack two weeks before Operation Cast Lead.

 

 

Christina L. with son Zachar Bereaved immigrants visit Tel Dor antiquities

Left: Christina L. with son Zachar, 4. Christina's husband died suddenly in September 2008.

Right: Bereaved immigrants visit Tel Dor antiquities during SELAH healing retreat: From right: Almaz R., a single mother of two children now also raising her late sister's two children; Dr. Alexander A., whose son Grigory, a reserve soldier, was killed in a rocket attack during the Second Lebanon War; Lydia S., whose son Pavel was killed in a Hamas attack on an IDF tank in June 2006; Oleg (behind Lydia S.) and Tatiana M., whose teenage daughter Katya was killed in September 2007 in a car accident; and Anna T., whose son Yevgeny was killed in battle during the Second Lebanon War.

 

 

SELAH social worker Orian with Maya G Volunteer from Toronto Jessica with Michael M

Left: SELAH social worker Orian with Maya G., whose mother died when she was one month old. She is being raised by her father and her grandparents.

Right: Volunteer from Toronto Jessica with Michael M., whose father was killed in a work accident.

 

 

Paulina G. and Ludmilla M.

Paulina G. (r), whose husband Shimon was killed in the Second Lebanon War, and Ludmilla M., who lost her son Alexander in Operation Cast Lead.

Retreat for Survivors of Rocket Attacks,
Kibbutz Ginossar, May 15-16, 2009

 

SELAH brought survivors of rocket attacks from Sderot, Ashkelon and Ashdod – all of whom received individual emergency aid -- together for a healing retreat on the shores of Lake Kinneret. Suffering from physical wounds, severe damage to their homes and continuing emotional trauma, the 46 men, women, youth and children, shared their personal ordeals in professionally led support groups, experienced healing treatments of their choice, and discovered new strengths alongside their peers. An evening song concert ended with the participants dancing their hearts out even with their handicaps. One woman suffering from severe post-traumatic stress after her home was hit by a rocket, said: "I have not left my house in Sderot for so long. It's good to be away and to breathe air again without fear. I think this will help me when I am back at home".

Ginossar seminar    Ginossar seminar

Left picture: From right to left: Adam Tachtarov, whose home in Sderot was hit 3 times by rockets; Galina Zilberman, severely wounded  in a rocket attack  and still recovering; Raisa and Yuri Bisrayev, suffering trauma after a direct rocket hit on their home; Rima and George Haimov, the parents of Yossi , 11,  who suffered severe injuries in an attack.

Right picture:  Selah social worker Alex Altshuler with Galina Zilberman, who was seriously wounded in a Grad rocket attack on December 29, 2008. She was hospitalized for a long time and is still recovering.

Ginossar seminar                 Ginossar seminar

 

Left picture: Genady Gonsky, a widower, previously disabled from a foot amputation, was wounded in the other leg when a rocket hit his apartment in Ashdod in January 2009. His life was  saved  by a neighbor who applied a tourniquet to his leg. Just three weeks later, Genady's only son died of cardiac arrest.

Right picture:  Yossi and Maria Haimov, then and now: (1) just after Yossi was seriously wounded by in a rocket attack in February 2008, and (2) at SELAH retreat May 2009. He is slowly beginning
to recover the use of his injured arm.

Photographer: Edward Kaprov

 

SELAH cares for 25 Russian visitors wounded
in fatal bus crash near Eilat
December 16, 2008…A bus filled with Russian travel agents from St. Petersburg crashed near Eilat, killing 24 and wounding 25, some critically.
The wounded were rushed to hospitals for emergency treatment, and from these first moments, SELAH's Russian-speaking volunteers and social workers were by their side offering comfort and practical help. The most seriously injured are still recovering in rehabilitation centers in Israel and SELAH remains with them.
Immediately after the crash, SELAH’s emergency teams mobilized to come to the aid of the injured Russian visitors, who had been in the country for less than an hour when their bus crashed.
SELAH teams fanned out to all the hospitals throughout Israel where the survivors were sent for treatment. Our Russian-speaking trauma professionals and trained volunteers were by their bedsides, to comfort them and provide for essential first needs, including helping them contact their families back in Russia, desperately awaiting news.
When these relatives arrived in Israel, SELAH met them at the airport and accompanied them to the hospital.
Each survivor had their own personal tragedy: One injured woman had lost her best friend. Another had suffered many losses in her life and was left alone. Yet another had to cope with every parent’s nightmare: her 28-year-old daughter was been killed in the crash. SELAH was with her husband when the news was finally broken to her in the hospital trauma unit, where she had lain unconscious for days.
Bוus crash
February 24, 2009: Recovering Russian bus crash survivors visit Jerusalem


The SELAH caregivers who accompanied the crashsurvivors and their families from the time of the accident took them to Jerusalem on February 24, 2009 for their first organized trip in the country. For some, it was the first time they had left the rehabilitation center.

 

 

Bus Crash survivors   Bus crash survivors

 

Recovering crash survivors visit Jerusalem with SELAH

"It's like coming out into the free world!"


They ranged in age from their twenties to their sixties. They had suffered terrible wounds, but on this day, they walked on their own, with SELAH caregivers nearby ready to give a hand. Their recoveries had been described as remarkable by the doctors.

 

The excitement of the wounded visitors at coming to Jerusalem was tremendous, especially when they visited the Church of the Holy Sepulcher and the Western Wall. The rabbi of the Wall told them how he had been in contact with the rabbi of St. Petersburg, where the travelers came from, and that the people of both cities were praying for their recovery.

 

Selah trip        Natasha Kurtz

 

Luba S., who suffered severe head injuries and whose son and husband were killed in two separate car accidents in Russia, said, "I feel so many things, appreciation and gratitude, most of all, for the humanity you invest in people. The rehabilitation center is a good place, but today, it's like coming out into the free world!

 

Vladislav D., 30, who suffered many broken bones, a crack in his spinal column and a head wound, is already planning for the future: "This is not my last time in Israel. As soon as my health permits, I am coming back."

 

SELAH update… Some of the wounded were able to return to Russia soon after the daytrip. Others are staying on in Israel for continuing treatment, and SELAH remains with them.

 

Daytrip for Grandparents and Grandchildren
in Ben-Shemen Forest

 

On Friday, May 16, 2008, seventy immigrant grandparents and grandchildren enjoyed a day of fun, picnicking and challenging activities in the Ben-Shemen Forest. The children, orphaned after a family tragedy, are now being raised by their grandparents.

 

The Pfizer Pharmaceuticals Israel company sponsored the day-long event, and company representatives, including country manager Ofra Feinmesser, joined volunteers and participants in drum workshops, music-making and games and activities.

Photographer: Edward Kaprov

 

 

 

From misery to joy,
from mourning to a holy day,
and from deep darkness to great light.

 

(From Passover Haggadah)

 

 

In the tradition of holiday giving in Israel, The Pfizer Company, in cooperation with SELAH - Israel Crisis Management Center, initiated an activity in nature for new immigrant grandparents raising their orphaned grandchildren. This activity was meant to give an embrace, strengthening and support to new immigrants, while deepening their connection with the country, its landscapes and people, as Israel marks 60 years of independence.

 

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

"Identifiying familiar Faces…"

 


Social Gathering for New Immigrants Living in Kiryat Shmona

 

The Israel Crisis Management Center, SELAH, in helping new immigrants (olim) in crisis situations following the second Lebanon War. SELAH's professional caregivers and volunteers have made hundreds of home visits in Kiryat Shmona. Through these visits, human presence and open ears and hearts, SELAH identifies their individual needs and lends a helping hand in response to these special needs.

 

For the upcoming holiday, Pesach, SELAH organized a social gathering and concert with singer Yelena Grishkov, winner of Israeli "A Star is Born" competition. The theme being "Identifying familiar Faces…" as described in the song written by Yelena "A minute and Eternity". Each oleh presented a childhood picture and shared their life story with the other olim.

 

Many of the olim that attended the event are participants of the community project run by SELAH in cooperation with The School of Social Work, Tel Hay College, headed by Dr. Shira Huntman. The project is designed mainly for elderly people with limited mobility and/ or living on their own. The project is composed of home visits and social events through out the year, conducted by SELAH personnel and 3rd year social work students.

 




Photographer: Sasha Alechov